How was school today?

My eldest son has always been social, so I’ve never worried about someday going without hearing what he has to say. Of course I know it’s inevitable, so this summer I began asking “What was your favorite part of the day?”, as well as sharing my favorite, as I tucked him into bed. I’ve gotten such a kick out of hearing what stood out for him in the day, sometimes things I didn’t even register until he mentioned it. If you think about it, when someone asks you, “How was your day?” we typically respond with “Fine” or “Good” because we’re just answering the question without putting thought into it.

Ms. Karen and I chat a lot about these things, so she sent me an article titled ’25 Ways to Ask Your Kids “So How was School Today?”  (Without Asking “So How Was School Today?”)’. I’ve shared them with you here:

1. What was the best thing that happened at school today? (What was the worst thing that happened at school today?)

2. Tell me something that made you laugh today.

3. If you could choose, who would you like to sit by in class? (Who would you NOT want to sit by in class? Why?)

4. Where is the coolest place at the school?

5. Tell me a weird word that you heard today. (Or something weird that someone said.)

6. If I called your teacher tonight, what would she tell me about you?

7. How did you help somebody today?

8. How did somebody help you today?

9. Tell me one thing that you learned today.

10. When were you the happiest today?

11. When were you bored today?

12. If an alien spaceship came to your class and beamed someone up, who would you want them to take?

13. Who would you like to play with at recess that you’ve never played with before?

14. Tell me something good that happened today.

15. What word did your teacher say most today?

16. What do you think you should do/learn more of at school?

17. What do you think you should do/learn less of at school?

18. Who in your class do you think you could be nicer to?

19. Where do you play the most at recess?

20. Who is the funniest person in your class? Why is he/she so funny?

21. What was your favorite part of lunch?

22. If you got to be the teacher tomorrow, what would you do?

23. Is there anyone in your class who needs a time-out?

24. If you could switch seats with anyone in the class, who would you trade with? Why?

25. Tell me about three different times you used your pencil today at school.

Happy chatting,

Ms. K

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